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What happens when you are friends with a guy, but you want more than that? What should you do if that is the situation that you find yourself in? This article should help you out.

6 Responses to “He Only Seems to Want to be Friends and I Was Hoping for More Than That”

  • The Beatles:

    So last weekend a guy friend (Ben) offered to hang out with me friday night if I was free. I said I would let him know, and then this guy (Chris) from work that I really liked wanted to hang out so I hung out with him instead.

    I texted Ben that I was sorry and he texted back “ok whatever” and although he said he wasn’t mad he kinda seemed upset about it!?

    Well then Ben said he wanted to meet me and talk to me about something.. he promised he wasn’t mad, but what does he want to talk about!?

  • Hannah:

    It seems like now today they hate me. My friend posted a comment on my youtube saying why did you tell -a guy’s name- that i was emo? I’m so pissed off at you. That is bullsh*t. And I never said anything like that. And also today I went to the movies with my crush and my other best friend and she seemed pissed off at me while we watched the movie and I texted my other friend saying that I’m bored how about you? And she just replied ” gtg” is something going on with them? I don’t get it. And this all happened today.

  • addmeonxbox360myuserisfallior:

    So I’ve been friends with this amazing girl for over a year now and I absolutely love her to death. A few months ago we got in a little quarrel abou things that I was writing in my diary about her. I felt awful, and had never meant for her to see them. But it seems like the damage has been done. Although our friendship is still in good condition, I feel a lot more strain from it than I used to. We still concider each other to be best friends and we’re both there for each other but it feels like something that was once there isn’t anymore. I don’t know what to do.

    Recently, she’s been getting pretty selfish and everyone around me has noticed it. It’s like she won’t do anything unless it benifits her. I really don’t want to lose her as my best friend, she’s the greatest I’ve ever had and I love her dearly. However, the gap in age- she’s almost eighteen and I’m nineteen- seems to be causing an issue. I can’t quite tell though if she’s immature or if I am. She’s given up on dating, which is fine but it’s really making her sad and I don’t know what to do about it. I want to help her.

    So what do I do? Is there anything that I can do? I have a really hard time talking through issues with people, but I hate to see this friendship fade and I hate to see her sad.

  • lildevilgurl152004:

    So I’ve noticed that suddenly it seems that all my friends have become very immature. I’m not sure if this is because I have always been a bit more mature, or if it’s because I graduated early and am now getting ready for college.

    Where can I find mature, fun friends while at community college? Most of my classes are online, but I’d really like to find some cool friends.

    Any suggestions would be appreciated.

  • Brody S:

    I am a 16 male in grade 10.

    Little bit depressed that i figured out my life is changing for the worst.

    They told me high school would be a whole different ball game.

    my old friends… I dont have old friends they are out of my life they have deserted me.

    I made some new friends but they soon vanished.

    I cant possibly seem to make any new friends like everyone doesnt really want to talk to me.
    Everyone is already in there little friends circle i cant just jump in.

    Im very shy depressed and losing hope.
    please help me in this situation im dealing with.
    thank you.

    But I will never ever commit suicide. or even think of it.

  • homerliveshere:

    my friend said she made 3 friends onthers said they made a lot.. and im a freshman
    so wth whats causing this..a lot of my clasess dont really have someone that seems intresting to talk sad.. because i want more friend said that she said me her and her guy friend will hang out one day and so we could all be friends :) …so I hope in 3rd trimester i will get new friends too

    So any tips about helping me. I do talk to a lot of people but wouldnt concider them friends..

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