You are falling fast and hard for a Virgo man. Who could really blame you? These men are a cut above the rest in many women’s eyes. They tend to be incredibly intelligent, painfully insightful and when they fall in love, they treat the woman they adore like a Queen. Falling in love with a man like this can feel like a fairytale come true but what happens if he’s not on the same wavelength as you? If you want to ensure that he feels just as close to you as you do to him, there are several things you can do right now. Don’t let a man like this slip away. You’ll soon regret it and you’ll spend the rest of your life wondering whether the “one” got away from you.
Virgo men love women who are curious and knowledgeable. You have likely already noticed that the Virgo man you adore is very interested in many different subjects. These men have a zest for life and for learning. They crave new experiences and information so it’s imperative that when you want to get closer to a man like this that you learn as much as you can as quickly as you can. That’s not to say that you need to cram for your next date with him, but it’s always a good idea to have at the very least a passing knowledge of what’s going on in the world.
If you are passionate about a certain subject, share that with the man you are interested in. He’ll see the excitement in your face and hear the joy in your voice when you talk about it. Don’t be surprised if he wants to learn more about it, even if it’s something as mundane as knitting or something as elaborate as studying prehistoric life. Virgo men are sponges for new information so be certain you can supply him with an endless stream of important things to talk and think about.
Always look your best when you’re with a Virgo man. Virgo men appreciate a woman who takes care of the way she looks. This doesn’t mean that you have to invest in an entirely new, high priced wardrobe. You should keep yourself looking presentable and fashionable though.
It’s also important that you put in some extra effort when you and the man in your life are going on a special date. One common complaint among men who are born under this sign is that the women they date don’t appreciate the value of the evening spent together. Buy a new dress if you two are going out to celebrate a special occasion, be it a birthday or a job promotion. If you can’t afford something from a designer rack, visit the local thrift store. An eclectic fashion sense will always win points with the Virgo guy in your life.
Be strong emotionally if you want him to love you. Virgo men aren’t always as generous as the women they love wish they could be when it comes to compassion. A man like this generally doesn’t have a great deal of patience for a woman who wears her heart on her sleeve. Unless you have something monumental to discuss in terms of the relationship it’s best not to bring it up with him. He’ll tire easily if you’re constantly talking about issues that he views as insignificant.
When you do have something to discuss that you believe impacts the foundation of your connection be very direct and succinct with him. Don’t beat around the bush and don’t try and get him to guess what’s wrong. Just tell him and he’ll appreciate you even more. Virgo men love women who don’t mince words and who tell it like it is since that’s the way they handle relationship issues as well.
Let him set the pace of the relationship. Pushing a Virgo man into a more serious relationship than he’s ready for will only result in disaster. The same is true for when you express your undying love to him. The safest route to take with a man like this is to follow his lead. Allow him the ability to set the tone for the relationship and let him guide you, with his actions and words.
A man born under this sign is likely to retreat if he feels that he’s being pressured into something he’s simply not ready for. He won’t hold back when it comes to telling you as much and a conversation like that will not only be uncomfortable it will be emotionally devastating to you, as well.
Enjoy the moments that the two of you do have and don’t try and rush things along. If you truly want to win the heart of the Virgo man take it day-by-day and embrace each and every experience. If he doesn’t feel as though you’re waiting for him to proclaim his love and devotion, he’ll let his guard done and before you know it, he’ll be hopelessly in love with you.