Since your ex boyfriend broke up with you are you sitting by the phone waiting for him to call? Do you check your text and email every few minutes to see if he has communicated with you? If you are this is normal, but it will not get your ex back. This just what he expects you to do and it allows him to play with you like a puppet. This just feeds his ego and he has no worries about losing you.
He might even send you a text now and then and you almost break your neck to answer it. However, by answering his text or emails, you are only adding to his confidence and comfort. Your ex boyfriend is only giving you hope of getting him back so he can keep you hanging around. You are nothing but a fly in his web and he will toy with you until he gets bored and dumps you for good.
You can’t make a man crazy with desire if you are too easy. Men only want what is difficult to get and as long as you play his game, you are not being hard to get. The reason he was fascinated by you when he first met you, was because you did not show any interest in him and that posed a challenge for him. To get back the man you love, you have to be a challenge again.
You have too much dignity and pride to let your ex boyfriend or any other man treat you like dirt. There are plenty of men who would do anything to have a woman like you, but if you only want the one who dumped you then you have to make him crazy with desire for you again. To do that you have to be strong enough not to answer his text or emails. If he calls you have to let him leave a message.
But, you have to make up your mind to see it through. If you only ignore him for a few days and then start answering his communications again, you will be showing him that he can have you anytime he wants you. This is your future because if you give in now, he will always know that all he has to do is walk away from you and he can have his way.
If your ex boyfriend is really in love with you, he will respect your feelings and offer to talk out your problems. A relationship is a give and take proposition. If you have to do all of the giving and your ex boyfriend does all of the taking, what chance of happiness can you expect? You will always be afraid to say or do anything because you might upset him. Living life that way is no life at all.
Now is the time to make your stand or he will be wiping his feet on you like a door mat for good. But, once he sees you mean business, your ex will realize how much he misses, his desire for you will return and he will never want to be without you again.