postheadericon How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Crazy With Desire For You? – Advise For Women Who Want Their Ex Back

Since your ex boyfriend broke up with you are you sitting by the phone waiting for him to call? Do you check your text and email every few minutes to see if he has communicated with you? If you are this is normal, but it will not get your ex back. This just what he expects you to do and it allows him to play with you like a puppet. This just feeds his ego and he has no worries about losing you.

He might even send you a text now and then and you almost break your neck to answer it. However, by answering his text or emails, you are only adding to his confidence and comfort. Your ex boyfriend is only giving you hope of getting him back so he can keep you hanging around. You are nothing but a fly in his web and he will toy with you until he gets bored and dumps you for good.

You can’t make a man crazy with desire if you are too easy. Men only want what is difficult to get and as long as you play his game, you are not being hard to get. The reason he was fascinated by you when he first met you, was because you did not show any interest in him and that posed a challenge for him. To get back the man you love, you have to be a challenge again.

You have too much dignity and pride to let your ex boyfriend or any other man treat you like dirt. There are plenty of men who would do anything to have a woman like you, but if you only want the one who dumped you then you have to make him crazy with desire for you again. To do that you have to be strong enough not to answer his text or emails. If he calls you have to let him leave a message.

But, you have to make up your mind to see it through. If you only ignore him for a few days and then start answering his communications again, you will be showing him that he can have you anytime he wants you. This is your future because if you give in now, he will always know that all he has to do is walk away from you and he can have his way.

If your ex boyfriend is really in love with you, he will respect your feelings and offer to talk out your problems. A relationship is a give and take proposition. If you have to do all of the giving and your ex boyfriend does all of the taking, what chance of happiness can you expect? You will always be afraid to say or do anything because you might upset him. Living life that way is no life at all.

Now is the time to make your stand or he will be wiping his feet on you like a door mat for good. But, once he sees you mean business, your ex will realize how much he misses, his desire for you will return and he will never want to be without you again.

5 Responses to “How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Crazy With Desire For You? – Advise For Women Who Want Their Ex Back”

  • Tyler H:

    I have been trapped in his house for over a week so far and was bored. I found a cd and came across a love letter he wrote to his ex when they were together with a sincere apology for something stupid. They only dated for 2-3 months and supposedly she was a bitch and even cheated on him. Me and him however have been dating for over a year. For our 1 yr anniversary 2 weeks ago he did nothing, much less has he ever writen me a poem or letter. I am 100% faithful, make him my priority, give him full body massages and bjs and sex and always shower him with compliments. I am grumpy over a lot of stuff he has said and done lately, and this just puts me in a worse mood. Should I mention this to him, even though I was snooping?
    I tried saying it on the phone today, but couldn’t bring myself to and he called me crazy and hung up. :(
    I asked him last night about love letters and he said he would have to really really like the person and it would take months or at least days on end to write. I’m so jealous…I have told him numerous times how much a love poem would mean to me. He has never even given me a sincere apology…
    Should I mention this to him…? Thanks ^^

  • borabora5524:

    I had a dream the other night about my mother who is deceased and the woman I love who I lost. The two of them were spending time together in a school. The dream was for two days…..The first day I was hugging the woman I love so tightly with my mom looking on. They were both wearing white. The second day of the dream my mom wasn’t there but i went back to the school looking for the woman I love and was told she wasn’t there that day. I asked where she was and was told she was in court with her ex-boyfriend. The dream felt like it was so real that I could have touched and kissed my mom. I am asking this question because the woman that I love was always very interested in learning about my mother. I haven’t seen her in a year but there have been some crazy things happening in my life that seem to be drawing me back to her. I have also been having a recurring dream where her and I are either in a school or hospital together and she usually yells at me in the hospital or just wants to sit together or hug when we are in the school. Last night i had a dream where my mother and i were in prison together. I have never tried to read into a dream before but I am curious about this one. Thanks

  • Lia-lu-li: I over-reacting or is he crazy for not seeing it? Brief: boyfriend of 2 years, still legally married from 10 years of separation, has 1 child together…ex always has to be at all family gatherings with his family, spends most every weekend over at his parents house during the summer at their pool…this is the problem…we have made plans for the family to go to the beach for thanksgiving week..have rented locations for everyone..MY IDEA!! She is now wanting to bring their daughter down there on wednesday and stay through thanksgiving with all of us (his family and I)..

    am I upset..damn right!! It is bad enough to spend the summer weekends with this woman..but now my holiday vacation…yes, I went off!! He says I am over-reacting to the situation, he has no desire to be with her, and they have a daughter…I say, she is not part of the family anymore and therefore, should not be a part of family gatherings…his daughter yes, by all means..I love her to death! He says that is not what she meant..spending the day with us..she just wants to bring their daughter to the beach..wants to spend a couple of days with her…the daughter wants to go with us! The ex has a boyfriend (that she wants to leave at home while bringing the daughter to meet us)..she is one of those people that you just don’t like from the first meeting…two-faced, manipulating, controlling, needy…she talks about her bf to everyone (how possessive, stupid and jealous), but..lets him pay all of her bills with no problem..I am by no means jealous…and I love my bf, I want to be with him, but I am getting tired of always seeing her at these family functions..she is not part of the family anymore..any suggestions?

  • Victoria T:

    my ex boyfriend and i broke father passed away in January the same month we started talking so it was kind of hard,but he made me feel the way me and him grew up together since 1st grade so we know each other before and were friends before .i have been depressed lately and did not want to go out and go places .he got tired of not seeing me .i did not tell him i was depressed .we are both in college but he also works and does things with family .we both told each other we loved each other .i feel as if i messed up our relationship because I was holding things question is how do i get a second chance with my first love .i want to take things slow but i also want our friendship to be like before he was honestly my best friend.i have deactivated my facebook and deleted his number. so i would not be the crazy ex and text or look at his page. I am trying to change my ways also.

  • Smashing Pumpkins:

    I’m a 19 year old lady. I lost virginity like 4 years back with a guy whom I really didn’t like/love. after that, I always kept myself reserved.. I never really liked guys; I thought all guys were similar; or at least that’s what I tried to convince myself into. but there’s a saying that, “everybody needs a *someone* “; you can’t deny that no matter how much you lie to yourself. I’ve been alone for all these years; I always tried to find someone to love me crazy… but I never found. I don’t like short-term relationships, coz they remind me of my ex. They say that once you have lost *it*, it’s very hard to keep yourself from doing it anymore. well I can relate to it now. I kept myself from it for 4/5 years.. I don’t know if I can take another year or two. There’s this physical desire that plays a role. Now, there’s this guy that I really fell in love with lately. He knows; but he has a girlfriend. I’m not the type to take a man who already has a woman.. but for some reason I really like him a lot. I wonder if it has anything to do with my physical desire. I been thinking about him pretty deep lately… I went too far thinking about him.. I keep seeing a future w/ him when he’s already taken. so anyways.. I wanted to know whether some of you guys have felt the same or can relate to my situation.. I don’t know if I should still keep myself from it until I’m engaged.. or should I just let it happen. I know I’m over 18, but I have a strong conscience. I don’t want it haunt me down later on. basically I wanna know, should I still control my physical desire? is that the best solution to it?

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